Impossible Conversation – Week Three
***It is mentioned before the interview that within the church, 64% of Christian men and 15% of Christian women watch porn at least once a month.
Pastor Josh Amstutz interviews Pastor Josh Broome about the pervasive issue of pornography and its impact within the church, revealing that a significant percentage of Christian men and women are affected. The interview with Pastor Broome, who transitioned from a porn star to a pastor, highlights the potential for transformation through faith and community support. He emphasized the importance of understanding this struggle as a reality that requires open discussion and accountability, leading to healing and freedom. They both encourage viewers to take proactive steps towards recovery by confessing their struggles, seeking accountability, and utilizing available resources for freedom from addiction.
Josh Broome shared that shame kept him isolated, saying “if the enemy can distract you and isolate you from God and community, then you’ll stay where you are.” How does shame play a role in preventing people from seeking help for their struggles? How have you experienced the difference between guilt (which can lead to positive change) and shame (which keeps us stuck)?
What steps can a person take to replace unhealthy habits with positive ones, particularly when dealing with addictions?
According to Hebrews 12:2, why is it significant that Jesus endured the cross with joy set before Him, and how does that relate to our struggles?
Josh Broome mentioned that when breaking free from addiction, “a habit needs to be replaced with a habit.” What are some healthy habits or practices you’ve found helpful in redirecting your life when facing temptation of any kind? What are some new habits you should consider implementing?
Joshua said “doing the right thing for the wrong reason is always going to be the wrong thing” and emphasized that behavior modification alone doesn’t give God glory. How do you distinguish between trying to change your behavior through willpower versus allowing God to transform your heart?
It was emphasized how critical it is to “tell somebody” rather than struggling alone. What makes vulnerability and confession so difficult in the church context? How can we create safer spaces for people to share their struggles?